Would you like to become more successful, wealthy and happy?
I guessed so. Everybody likes the feeling of being successful, wealthy and happy.
However, not so many people have it…
And do you know the reason why? (you probably don’t…)
Ok, so, let me tell you.
It’s because most people are self-sabotaging themselves.
Exactly! If you are not where you want to be in life, it’s probably because you are doing something wrong.
I spent some of the previous months observing the lives of other people: friends, relatives, acquaintances.
The result of my observation was listing down 6 major negative behaviors that STOP people from acquiring wealth, success and happiness.
Read carefully and honestly think if you are falling into any of these categories.
Because if you do, you are probably self-sabotaging yourself.
The moment you are free of these 6 negative behaviors, will be the moment you start moving forward to the life you are meant to live.
And you will be one step closer to driving that Mercedes you see in the picture above. Or a Lambo. Or a Porsche.
Well, whatever you prefer.
So, which of these 6 major negative behaviors are yours?
How could you possibly compare your life with the life of other people?
Especially people you have never even met.
Many people make the mistake of getting influenced by figures on social media and their (seemingly) perfect lives.
Comparing yourself to people you’ve never met and leaving life through the lens is literally destroying your self-esteem and makes you feel intimidated and discouraged.
“I will be happier when I have more money, lose weight, get jacked, build muscle…blah blah”
Most people make the mistake of focusing on the outcome and ignoring the process.
Instead of enjoying every moment of the process and feeling happy with what they already have, they are brainwashed to feel that it’s not enough…
But no matter what you have, how successful you are or what you do there will always be something more you would like to have or do.
If you can’t be happy with what you have right now, you won’t be happy when/if what you want becomes a reality.
You will always be looking for something MORE…
Solution: Stop Taking Things For Granted
How many times have you said something like:
“I will start going to the gym if I have more time”
“ I will start saving money when I find a better job”
“ I will start a business when the financial crisis cools down”
Why not start right now?
You are never going to find the perfect time, opportunity or circumstances. There will always be an obstacle stopping you.
Today it’s that you don’t have money, tomorrow it will be that you don’t have time, the next month it will be that you are too busy and the next year it will be that the weather is rainy.
There will always be something…
Ignore it. Move on with what you want to do. Don’t wait a single day.
Solution: Change your life today.
Take a minute and think how you feel about people who don’t keep their promise.
They cancel the last time, they promise to be next to you when you need them, but back off at the last moment and generally don’t do what they say they will do.
Isn’t it more disappointing when you do the same thing? Especially when it comes to the promises you give to yourself.
Saying that you will commit to doing something and not doing it is killing your self discipline.
Solution: Get more disciplined.
Spending hours scrolling down your Facebook timeline.
Watching TV commercials you are not even interested in.
Playing video games or just watching random videos on YouTube.
Why do you do all that stuff?
“Just to kill time” most people say. Do you really believe you have time to kill? Do you really believe that your time is infinite?
If you really believe that and don’t change that belief as soon as possible, you will regret it more than anything else…
Compromising for less, sacrificing your dreams, choosing the illusion of safety over real freedom, following the crowd and complaining about the doom and gloom in your life.
Do you know what all these have in common?
You play to lose…
You shouldn’t be in life to lose. You should play to win.
The 6 top negative behaviors that stop you from becoming successful, wealthy and happy.
If you find yourself doing any of these things, you must stop it immediately – otherwise it will hinder your personal growth and achievements.
It’s time to stop self-sabotaging yourself.
It all starts right now, by never behaving in any of the previously mentioned six ways.
PS: Do you fall into any of these 6 negative behavior mistakes?
Let me know in the comments and then SHARE this post with your friends on social media to help them act for success!